How To Your Ex Girlfriend Back - First Moves To Make
Many guys try it, and most of them fail: getting back together with an ex girlfriend after she breaks up with you. There's a lot to know about repairing a broken relationship, and a lot of big mistakes you could be making. If you're already trying to win back your girlfriend but nothing so far seems to be working? It's a good bet you've accidentally stepped off the path to reconciliation.

Women want what they want. If your girlfriend has decided that she wants to break up with you, there's probably no changing her mind.
One of the biggest errors you'll make while learning how to get back with your ex girlfriend is to roll with the things she does, instead of trying to battle or fight with her on them.
Contrary to what other people will tell you, "fighting for your relationship" during ab unwanted breakup is actually a very, very bad idea.
Initial Reactions to Breaking Up
Getting back together again is NOT something your ex is looking for right after the break up. Approaching her with overwhelming amounts of pressure is the surest way to send her screaming in the opposite direction.
You'd be surprised at how many guys do this: they feel as if they can just talk to their ex, maybe sit down with them and explain how they really feel, that some kind of magical transformation will happy. I'm sorry to tell you that unless you're in a John Cusack movie, this simply doesn't happen. Your girlfriend isn't going to suddenly "understand everything", throw her arms around your neck, and start kissing you again.
The best thing you can do immediately after your ex breaks things off is to walk away. That's it. It's so simple, but it's so hard to do - and this is why most guys fail miserably at this stage of the reconciliation process.
And even if your romance already ended? There are detachment techniques you can use to draw her back, even if you think you missed your chance at walking away cleanly from the breakup.
But yes, most guys make the mistake of chasing after an ex girlfriend until she runs away. It's a shame too, because this is probably the most critical point in your break up. Your ex is watching your every move - yes, even if she was the one who broke things off - and she's judging you based on the things you do.
If you go out kicking and screaming and begging her to take you back? She'll lose respect for you instantly. This will kill your chances later on, when you really need that respect to win her over.
How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend NEED You Back
Making your ex want you again is also pretty simple: you need to stay away. Again, this isn't easy for most guys. If you've been talking to your girlfriend every day, emailing and text-messaging her, and generally contacting her whenever you felt like it... all that stuff has to stop as soon as she dumps you. There shouldn't be any residual contact that you have with your ex - not even to ask her when she wants to pick up her stuff. Phone calls, texts, and emails all end the very second your relationship does. There shouldn't even be any "innocent" contact either, because there's no such thing.
While the above no-contact rule seems fairly extreme, you have to realize something. People miss other people only after they've gone away.

Think about that for a second. When someone you haven't seen for a while comes back into your life, odds are good that you're really happy to see them. This is because you missed them. And if you want your girlfriend back, she needs to miss you too.
Dropping completely out of her life gives her some time to really see what her life will be like with you totally gone from it. This, in turn, will create loneliness. Loneliness leads to her thinking about you, and from there she'll start remembering all the good times you had together. Your ex will miss you big time, and this is when she's susceptible to contact again.
Learning how to get back with your ex girlfriend requires patience. It's not something for the faint of heart, or for people who need immediate gratification. If you're someone who gives in to knee-jerk reactions anytime you have to wait for something, you're probably in for a hard time. But if you're willing to look long term - and you can visualize a time where you and your girlfriend are back together again? You can start working on a plan to get to that point.
Other Things You Can Do To Get Her Back
In the meantime, while you're waiting? There are LOTS of ways you can make your ex girlfriend want you back - including some pretty cool techniques that will make her jealous without even realizing it. Learn what these are, as they can really speed up the process of winning her back.
When it comes to fixing a break up, you have more options than you think. One of the best and most wildly popular guides on the internet has earned a serious reputation for putting people back together, and the details of this guide can be found below:
The Magic of Making Up - by T.W. Jackson
Just as picking up women is a learnable skill, exactly how to get your ex back can be easily taught. This incredibly acclaimed guide consists of a series of detailed chapters and video references, all designed to show you the exact step by step process by which you can reverse your breakup and win your girlfriend back.
The best part is that virtually any break up situation can be fixed, no matter how badly the split went or how long it's been since the two of you broke up. T.W. Jackson takes you by the hand and guides you along the path to reconciliation, one step at a time. No matter where you are or what phase of the breakup you might currently be involved in, you'll find out how to stop your ex from slipping away and learn the best ways of shifting the momentum in your favor.
Learn exactly what to do no matter what your situation. Are you currently on a break? No problem. Girlfriend not talking to you? You'll learn the best ways to reinitate contact with your ex, to re-open the lines of communication.
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- How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Miss You And Think About You Again
- Getting Your Girlfriend Back Fast - Quick Moves To Speed Things Up
- Can Being Friends With Your Ex Girlfriend Help You Get Her Back?
- Does She Still Love Me? How To Know What Your Ex Girlfriend Is Feeling
- Understanding Exactly Why Your Girlfriend Really Broke Up With You
- How To Win Your Girlfriend Back When She's Dating Someone Else
- Getting Past The Break - Winning Your Girlfriend Back When She Tells You She 'Just Wants Space'
- How To Fix Your Break Up When Your Girlfriend Caught You Cheating
- 6 Instant Adjustments That Will Make Your Girlfriend Want You Back
- Best Ways To Contact Your Ex Girlfriend After The Break Up
- Using Jealousy To Get Your Girlfriend Back - Making Her Want You
- Biggest Signs That Your Ex Wants You Back
- She Just Wants to Be Friends? How You Can STILL Get Her Back
- Your Ex Girlfriend Hasn't Called Yet - Is It Over?
- How to Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend - First Things You Should Do
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- Meeting Up With or Seeing Your Ex Girlfriend - What To Say and Do
- My Girlfriend Wants a Break - What Should I Do To Keep Her?
- The REAL Reason Your Girl Suddenly Stopped Texting With You
- Contacting Your Ex Girlfriend - When and How to Reconnect
- How to Get Your Girl Back by Calling Her Bluff
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